Some women are domestic divas, but not me! I'm a Domestic Dud! I'm not great at cleaning, cooking, sewing, etc. And the area I really suck at is....laundry! Oh, how I hate doing laundry!! This is what the laundry situation, normally, looks like at my house:
Another thing I suck at is - entertaining! I hate to entertain! And it's not that I don't want my friends over to my house - it's just that it stresses me out to plan it! Heck, it stresses me out just to think about it! I worry about every little thing - it's, completely, ridiculous. I worry about what to make, and if it's going to taste okay. I worry about what we're going to do while they are here. I worry about if they will have a good time.
We have friends who have had us over to their house a ton of times (you know who you are!), and I feel terrible that we've only had them over to our house, like two times! It's, totally, rude, but I have such a hard time getting past my anxieties! And, again, it's ridiculous because I know these friends don't care if my food turns out to suck!
What else? Oh, also, I'm not one of those people who has a good stock of food for unexpected guest! I buy only what I need for the week! So, if people stop by - I don't have a little stash of goodies or beverages to offer....pretty much, all I'd be able to offer you is water, and, maybe, MAYBE, a saltine cracker! So, yea, it's probably best that you don't just drop by....no, seriously, don't do it!!
So, often, I wish I was better at all of this stuff. I wish I could make myself keep up on the dang laundry! I wish I loved to entertain. I wish I could welcome impromptu visitors with open arms, and be happy that they've come. BUT that's just not me - not yet anyway. I'm going to work on doing better! And I promise to have you - yes, YOU - over real soon! :)